Six years ago in a "girls" only class at Impact (which is a christian youth trip i have attended for the past seven years) i wrote a letter to my future husband. yea, i thought it was a little weird at first too, but it is probably one of the most important thing i have ever written.
Going into the class that day i thought how boring and weird this is going to be, it was just going to be just like every other "girls"class...talk about sex, and what boundaries are, what is pure and impure and all that stuff we all had already heard before. But this was different. It was about love. God has someone out there for all of us; he has our life planned out and has that special person waiting for us. It was also about waiting, waiting for the one you will love and be with forever. Sex is ment to be a special thing between a husband adn a wife, who love each other. and if you "give it up" one day to some one you don't love and know you won't be with in the future, then how is that going to be special between you adn your spouse? how will you explain to them, "oh yea and honey, you arn't my first, ive actually been around the block a few times"... it probably won't go over so well.
And yea i have heard it from my parents about, love and sex adn waiting and all that good stuff, but in this class... writing a letter to the man that i would one day share my life with...it just seemed so real and i understood.
The letter (written personaly from me to my husband) was basically about how i am waiting for him and how i have made a committment to him and God that i am going to stya pure until God has put him in my life and we are married.
We wrapped the letters in a little box, which sits in my self, and all of us girls that were in that class that day all have a box that we will give our husbands one day.
I'm a girl, so naturally we think more about love and can't wait to be in love one day, but this class taught me it wasn't just about me, or just falling in love with a handsome man. it is how you live your life... for you, God and the man you will marry someday.
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I think that is really cool. I wrote one in college and gave it to my husband on our wedding day. I put it in a card and signed my maiden name for the last time and had one of my girls deliver it to him before the ceremony. Very cool (regardless of what anyone else thinks).
thats awesome. I really wish that more poeple realized how important it is to save themselves for the husband that God has picked out for them. I have always wanted to write a letter like that for my future husband but i haven't found the time to do that yet, i should probably write it sometime before i am married but yeah.
cool
sux2beurhusband lol
Jazzi jaz...just go ahead and get it over with. virginity is nothin these days. its just a letter.
hahha.
IM JUST KIDDING.
I love you and am very proud of you and all that you do. I admire many things about you..thus this being one.
love you.
I really think that someone (who will remain unnamed) would be secretly flattered to receive such a letter. Grow a heart. Opps, did I say that?
just make sure he's being safe.
what's your beef, dudigoon?
thank you ms.d
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